How Do You Develop Confidence humor and maturity When You have Nothing To Be Confident About?

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How Do You Develop Confidence humor and maturity When You have Nothing To Be Confident About?

Confidence cannot be boosted by technique.

So instead, here are 6 insights about confidence that most people don't know:

• Confidence is simply the absence of insecure thinking.
• As such, confidence doesn’t actually exist (i.e. it’s the absence of something, not anything itself).

• The desire for confidence      is the same as insecurity.
• There’s nothing we can do to boost confidence, we can only see things in a different light.
• When we focus inward (on ourselves and our abilities), we inevitably become insecure.

• When we focus outward (on the task at hand, the person we are with instead of on ourselves), we are naturally confident people tend to mix actual feelings with observed behaviour s.Often we observe people acting with confidence which in truth is driven by very strong internal insecurity. Take for example aggression. When you acknowledge that an aggressive person is in fact insecured you will rather feel pity for him and not fear. This outside focus (on others not on yourself) will enable you to act which will be perceived as a confidence.insecurity most often comes from focusing on ourselves and not on external environment.When you figure out why insecurity flows from focusing on ourselves, you will have solved the puzzle completely.

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Sameer 

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